Why do we need a public speaking class?
Most people fear public speaking in all of it’s forms. It might be public speaking as the best man at a wedding. It might be public speaking having to give a presentation in work. It might be public speaking having to address a local group. It might be public speaking having to run a workshop or a seminar. In any of the guises – it can be scary. People around us pick up on our feelings. So often, if they know we are nervous or scared, they don’t ask us to speak.
I have a clear memory of wanting to read out something for the end of year celebration at the school mass when I must have been no more than six or seven years old.
Bad experiences can make or break us
I also remember quite painfully that during our practise session, I got so nervous, I hid in the school toilet. I refused to join the class to speak. My teacher, at the time, instead of taking a little time with me, trying to encourage me or give me breathing exercises, or practical tools, she just told me I could not do it. She gave the reading to someone else. That was that. It compounded my sense of shame and failure.
We learn most from our failures
This experience was emblazoned into my memory growing up. I was not able. I could not speak or perform in public. This is the kind of thing that happens all the time to us as we are forming and growing. Someone who lacks confidence themselves, makes a sweeping decision that affects our development. That day I learned that if I was not prepared, I would not be chosen to do things I dreamt of doing. So, like a good girl guide, I decided from then on I would Be Prepared.
So what can we do about this fear of public speaking?
We can tackle our fears and take a class. Join a bunch of other people who want exactly the same thing. To be able to get up to that podium, stand up in the room, whatever and speak in front of a group of people – with a clear voice, with no wobbles, no catching of breath, no flapping nerves, no fidgeting.
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Public Speaking takes practise, practise, practise. Its does get easier. Take a look at our Effective Public Speaking classes here and join us on September 24 for six weeks. You won’t regret it. Email us today at actthemaggot@gmail.com